Gary Fontenot, Manager Of The Starwood
Gary Fontenot was the manager of the Starwood during its heyday in the seventies and until the club closed in 1981. Although we heard a bit about Gary from Lee who worked at the Starwood (read those amazing posts here), not much else was really known about him. Gary was from a large family and he grew up in a very small town in southwestern Louisiana. Like so many others, he headed out west to Los Angeles to seek a better life.
Gary passed away in Honduras in March of 1999. From the information available, it is easy to say that Gary Fontenot was a good man. I thank his brother, Patrick, for answering some of my questions and filling in the blanks.
Rest in peace, Gary.
Here is a start John…keeping in mind that I was living in Victorville California…stationed at George AFB. I was in the Air Force and stationed there from 1977 – 1980/81.
Did you ever visit your brother at his house in Studio City during the 70s or 80s? Did you meet any showbiz types?
My family and I visited Gary as often as possible on the weekends. I am not that familiar with Los Angeles and that area…but Gary lived in a rather nice little place that was pretty much walking distance to Sunset Blvd and it did not seem like it was a far drive from the Starwood. I do not remember the street name. He lived there with his friend Michael and Michael I believe was a nurse…doing private work if I recall. They had been friends for some time. I would also take some of my military friends to Gary’s home on Friday nights so they could experience the nightclub life at the Starwood. He would give us the VIP treatment everytime we would visit.
What exactly happened to Gary at the end of his life? Was he really living in central America? Retired?
When things began to go downhill for Gary he decided to move to Honduras. He actually drove there with some kid that I believe was from that area were they settled. Gary opened his own place down there and seemed to be happy…always inviting me to visit. However, by nature of my military job, I had to be very careful. Gary experienced an attempted robbery one evening when closing and was shot in the stomach. I don’t think he ever recovered, although his cause of death was attributed to prostate cancer. My brother Dale, flew down to Honduras several times to visit Gary and the last time he flew down was to ensure Gary received a proper burial.
Did Gary ever discuss Eddie Nash, who was his boss at the Starwood?
Gary did in fact talk a little about Nash. Lot of times it was in anger, however many times I believe the tone was respect. Nash would provide Gary with new cars which Gary loved…he did like showing off a little. I remember the last car given to Gary by Nash was a brand new Cadillac…we would drive to the Starwood in it and employees of the Starwood would jump in the car to park it when they recognized Gary in the car.
What did Gary do for a living right after the Starwood closed?
After the Starwood, Gary was not the same. He moved into an apartment complex and dabbled a little in real estate…but was unemployed a lot of the time;although he would never tell me. When at the Starwood, he was in control and afterward he seemed to lose that feeling. The apartment complex was nothing fancy…about the only thing I remember about it was a visitor that came by one day while I was there. Gary introduced him as an ex-FBI individual. I assumed he was because he was carrying a gun. They did not talk about anything specific and I guessed they had been acquaintances from way back.
Did your brother ever tell you that his house was shot up by a dealer with a machine gun? He was looking for the soundman of the Starwood, who owed him some money? Gary allegedly let the soundman, Dom Fragomeli, stay at his house in Studio City for a few weeks in 1981.
In 1981 I left California for Texas. I don’t think Gary was living in the original home when I first got to California. I am thinking he was still living in the apartment complex…is that what you meant as far as “home”. Gary barely mentioned that happening…we would talk by phone…He did not go into detail. But, knowing Gary, it would not surprise me that he had allowed someone to stay in his home. He was just that type of person. I believe he left California shortly after that incident. Keep in mind, the Nash thing, the Starwood, coupled by him losing a lot of money in the stock market…Gary needed a change. He had a hate/love relationship with California. As a small town boy, Los Angeles and the Hollywood scene took its toll on Gary. He was apparently good at what he did, managing nightclubs, but did rub elbows with some questionable people.
Hope this helps…as you think of questions, let me know and I will answer them the best I can. Will try and dig up some photos of Gary. You would really need to know where and how he grew up to understand the personal conflict he had with the whole Hollywood scene…
Have a great day.
Ray 11:31 pm on February 1, 2021 Permalink |
I ran across this quite by accident. I knew Gary when I first moved to Hollywood in 1966. My buddy Larry Perkins was dating one of Gary’s friends, Louie Frank, and we often hung out at the all-night coffee house Gino’s near Melrose and La Cieniga (sp?) because some of us were too young to get into bars. Gary was forever taking in stray boys and giving them a place to stay. I liked Gary. Six years later Gary was managing a bar (the Gas Station, I think) on Melrose.
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joie 6:00 pm on April 4, 2021 Permalink |
hi Gary was awesome but he managed the Gas Station Before the starwood, because kathy, was also going to the gas station and he hired her, when he went to run the starwood. after the starwood he went in to real estate for a short time then moved to honduras and a few years later her was murdered 😦
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joie 3:44 pm on September 6, 2020 Permalink |
I’ve written a chapter about the Starwoood and gary, michael byard, and ed nash now deceased I was there all day every day and night, we were thick as thieves,
i was deeply involved with everything so. but to be clear he moved to honduras after he left a finance co. Michael and Gary left for honduras around 88 i was at his apt up to the day he left michael took his patient with him he was a nurse. i found him in 98 in honduras and he seemed fine.
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John 8:46 am on October 16, 2021 Permalink |
Hi Joie, its John. Can we email… I have a few Starwood questions. Did Nash have a little dog? Stuff like that. Thx
wonderland1981blog at gmail.com
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joie 6:14 pm on October 16, 2021 Permalink
that will be for my book that is just needing some edits so can’t give away my details. Sorry
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John 8:35 am on September 6, 2020 Permalink |
Reblogged this on Wonderland1981 – The Wonderland Murders.
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nicky 12:12 pm on January 16, 2019 Permalink |
Peter Nicols,Mike J and I Nicky P Where at Gary’s house the day it was shot up.It was super bowl Sunday,Gary had us over for a small party.True in fact
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John 4:12 pm on January 29, 2019 Permalink |
Thanks Nicky. Email the blog so we can arrange to talk more. Gracias!
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John 4:13 pm on January 29, 2019 Permalink |
Was Bonaduce there?
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Anonymous 8:44 am on October 16, 2021 Permalink
Danny ?
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joie 6:20 pm on October 16, 2021 Permalink
danny B hung around the starwood i was in the office one night and he was threre maybe gary was trying to you know lol
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ValleyRelic 6:46 pm on August 31, 2017 Permalink |
I knew Gary casually in the late Starwood era (1979-1981). I was 18 or 19 when I started going there regularly and was what you may call a “pretty boy” at the time. Though the Starwood was ostensibly a “straight” rock and roll club, everyone back then was using a lot of cocaine, and the Starwood was frequented by lots of older gay and bi men who liked to lure the straight boys with drugs and alcohol. Gary’s friends were a lot of these guys, and his upstairs office was usually filled with a handful of men in their 30s and 40s and the “chicken” they had “pulled” from downstairs, doing coke, weed and drinking. Occasionally there were “VIPs” among this group, including well known radio DJs of the era, artist mangers, record executives, publicists, and even an actual rock star from time to time. I won’t divulge any names to protect identities, but boy could I name names! A few times I visited Gary’s home on Laurel Terrace in Studio City, and remember his housemate Michael, who was mentioned in your story. What I most remember about Gary is that he was a complete gentleman despite his hard partying lifestyle, and was always respectful and had a warm smile. The Starwood epitomized the “sex and drugs and rock and roll” lifestyle of late 1970’s West Hollywood. I’m grateful I survived it…and glad that I can fondly reminisce about my experiences there and share them here.
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brian 1:40 pm on September 6, 2020 Permalink |
I read cocaine was expensive back then. I guess there were people with money around there.
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joie 3:49 pm on September 6, 2020 Permalink |
More like young gay boys never older guys, he lived in laurel canyon in the hill til 76-77 then he moved righy over the hill in the hills at the bottom above ventura blvd. near Laurel Terrace . those were crazy times.
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baby 6:20 pm on August 25, 2014 Permalink |
That bouncer they called big eddie.
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Matt 11:09 am on November 5, 2017 Permalink |
As I read more. I see David Knight aka David Neidorf. Another pig. They destroyed kids lives
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baby 1:39 pm on August 24, 2014 Permalink |
That bouncers name was big eddie..He was nice at first. Seemed to have had a learning disability. Then one night he seemed very forceful to me and tried to kiss me. I found it odd. St eared clear of him after that..then also moved away from hollywood.
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joii 3:26 pm on July 3, 2014 Permalink |
hi John, just found this….I posted just a second ago…again very sad to hear this news…I know everything there is to know about the starwood, gary ed. etc. greg diles is dead. and yes he and ed murdered those people in laurel canyon, all over cocaine…
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Patrick Engeleiter 11:01 pm on June 7, 2020 Permalink |
Joii please contact me about a documentary. Patrick 414-306-1667
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joii 3:24 pm on July 3, 2014 Permalink |
Hi I knew Gary very well in the Starwood days I lived worked and breathed it. was with Gary and Michael byard all the time…I have a couple of pics of him at the starwood, spent many a day at all his houses. and yes he was living on havenhurst here in w Hollywood right before he moved to Honduras. I am very sad to read he is gone…
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david Gutiérrez 6:35 pm on March 9, 2015 Permalink |
That was a apartments get in contact with me my cell (615)4031841
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david Gutiérrez 6:36 pm on March 9, 2015 Permalink |
I remember gary fonteno from Honduras very well for many years
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Angie Fontenot 12:22 pm on February 5, 2016 Permalink |
Hi Joii, I am Angie, Gary’s niece. I would love any pictures you may have. Gary holds a very special place in my heart. If you can, please email them to me at angie0164@ymail.com or text them to me at 225-287-8120. Thank you 🙂
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Ken D. 5:00 pm on April 16, 2014 Permalink |
John,
Not heard anything out of you in awhile there bud. Hope everything is well!
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Bonnie Brae 7:00 pm on March 26, 2014 Permalink |
I am so jelly Gayle. You are one of very few people that actually grew up in LA.
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Bonnie Brae 7:02 pm on March 26, 2014 Permalink |
I was trying to keep in real in Sandy Ago.
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Bonnie Brae 7:06 pm on March 26, 2014 Permalink
*it
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Mykal Fontenot 7:13 pm on March 25, 2014 Permalink |
Hi john, my names mykal fontenot, and i am gary fontenots nephew and godson. It was as a result of my interest in my uncle, that i found your blog, and after questioning my father patrick about it, that he in turn contacted you…. i would just like to say thank you for sharing a mutual respect for my uncle, as well as for going out of your way to share his story, and keep his spirit alive…..much love, brother….rock n roll. Mykal
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John 6:09 pm on March 26, 2014 Permalink |
It was my pleasure, Mykal. Thanks for the kind words. God bless.
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david Gutiérrez 6:39 pm on March 9, 2015 Permalink |
I remember gary fontenot from honduras very well i can give you more info my cell 615) 4031841
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John 1:01 pm on March 18, 2015 Permalink
David, I’ll be in touch with you!! Thanks.
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joii resnick 5:48 pm on March 18, 2015 Permalink
i wored at starwood since it opened with Gary and kathy. i was good friends with gary he was awesome, also i was with him right b4 he moved to honduras… i have a few pictures too.
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Patti 10:59 am on August 3, 2019 Permalink |
Hi Mykal Fontenot . Did you visit your uncle in the sound booth ?
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Bonnie Brae 10:12 am on March 21, 2014 Permalink |
And yes. Your passion for this blog is part of your charm.
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John 6:46 pm on March 20, 2014 Permalink |
Thoroughly in love! I’d be offended if you weren’t so sexy.
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Bonnie Brae 10:09 am on March 21, 2014 Permalink |
I’d be offended if you thought I was anything else!
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Bonnie Brae 3:56 pm on March 22, 2014 Permalink
I want what you guys are smoking.
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Gayle 10:07 pm on March 21, 2014 Permalink |
You are right about that John, she is a totally sexy! …and a fantastic person, I am grateful for her friendship.
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Bonnie Brae 4:41 pm on March 20, 2014 Permalink |
Damn John. You are thorough.
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Gayle 11:20 pm on March 23, 2014 Permalink |
So this was very interesting John. My friend and I were talking about the old Starwood days…she remembers a big black bouncer there, made me wonder if it was Diles! Ha!
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Gayle 2:38 pm on March 24, 2014 Permalink |
I always wondered who managed the Starwood. I hung out there from 78 to 81…it wasn’t an over 21 club so we could get in being so young.
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